Second chances?

I suck at giving those!


I like being one. I’m nowhere near perfect, but that’s what makes me real.

I have flaws, imperfections, things I absolutely suck at – tech stuff drives me crazy. I also have bad habits – I’m quick to cut someone off if they seem in-genuine. Second chances? I suck at giving those.

There’s this idea out there – thanks to society and social media - hey there, IG!, that one must be perfect. No flaws, no imperfections, and great at everything – much like a heroine.

Being a heroine is completely unrealistic.

And, not to mention unfair to yourself – trying to measure up with a fairy tale takes away from your own greatness.

The particular set of flaws and imperfections you have are what make you YOU! What you suck at, what you’re great at – it all serves you and your calling in life.

Perfectionism doesn’t exist. It destroys.

Before you’ve even had a chance to put yourself out there, you’ve let the fear of “not good enough” cripple you.

Don’t buy into the illusion of perfection, or being a heroine.

Be an anti-heroine. Realistically imperfect…in your own perfect way.

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